Moving to Israel is not easy. No matter how much of a religious
Zionist one is or how committed a Charedi is to learning in an Israeli Yeshiva - leaving the
culture one grew up in is difficult. I don’t think most people even realize
just how ingrained that culture is in them until they leave. It becomes virtually a part
of one’s identity. But even if they do realize it, the sincerely committed make Aliyah anyway - difficult though it may be to pick up and move to a distant land where the culture and way of life is so different.
They do it because the values most important to them over-ride all that ingrained culture. They believe that being
a Jew in the fullest sense of the word can best be fulfilled only in the holy land. They are defined mostly by those religious
ideals.
It is one thing to be a die-hard Cub’s fan. But compared to
living in Eretz Yisroel being a Cub’s fan is almost meaningless. Oh… one may
still be interested in whether his hometown sports team is doing well. But on the scale of things important, it is
way down on the list.
This is true for those with the Dati Leumi Hashkafos as well
as those with Charedi Hashkafos.
The religious way of life for Charedim in Israel is a far superior to that
of America. Yom Tov in one of the many religious enclaves like Ramat Bet
Shemesh is filled with Limud HaTorah. I have observed that there are Shiurim
given daily on Chol HaMoed by various Roshei Yeshiva and other religious
personalities daily in one Shul after another. One can walk into a Shul Beis
HaMedrash on any given Chol HaMoed morning and find it packed with young people - mostly Charedim - learning B’Chavrusa till the earliest Mincha at about 12:30 PM.
Teffila B’Tzibur in most places is taken far more seriously…
and takes longer on the average than most American Shuls. This is true for both
communities. On Chol HaMoed afternoons, many
parks, zoos, and other leisure type areas are filled with huge numbers of Charedi
families enjoying the facilities. You can tell it is Yom
Tov all over the land. In other words the lifestyle of a Jew is lived far more
fully in Israel than in most communities in America. Even Boro Park.
The problem lies in the Hashkafic values of these two
dedicated groups and the intensity of adherence to them. The Hashkafos do not coincide. Although there is some overlap since
both communities are observant after all - there is apparently not enough for any kind of
harmonious relationship. The values end up clashing. Each side feels their
values are the correct ones and the values of other religious Jews are actually
detrimental to their goals. It is because both camps are so idealistic that they are
so uncompromising.
To a religious Zionist, making Aliyah is an important focus
of his life. Once in Israel supporting the Medina, protecting and defending it
via military service is a part of it. As is being a materially productive
member of the society.
While most religious Zionists value learning Torah and are
Koveah Itim (establish regular times for Torah learning) they firmly believe
that most Jews should first support their families and be productive members of society. Not that they oppose learning
Torah full time for the elite. They don’t. But they do not support it for the
masses.
They therefore see the masses of Charedim not doing their
part for the Medina and resent it. Especially when it is accompanied by
disparagement of the Medina.
To the Charedi - learning Torah L’Shma is the best thing any
Jew can do. It is the epitome of Judaism. They strive to learn Torah at great personal sacrifice… in most cases willing to live in poverty to achieve that end.
They do not value Aliyah per se. They see living in Eretz
Yisroel as a plus. But they see the Medina
as a necessary evil at best… that needs to be constantly pressured for
support.
Working for a living is
seen as a B’Dieved… to be done only as a last resort. Although many Charedim do end up working after learning in a Kollel for a number of years- leaving the Beis
HaMedrash is seen as a defeat of their goals of learning full time.
If they do make ‘official’ Aliyah at some point, it is not for idealistic reasons but for practical ones – to gain whatever financial benefits the government offers to encourage it. They do not consider drafting Charedim into the military fair since they feel that the spiritual contribution of Torah learning is far more contributory to Israel’s safety than is the military. Charedim therefore see RZ/DLs support for the Medina and the draft as worshiping ‘false ideologies’.
If they do make ‘official’ Aliyah at some point, it is not for idealistic reasons but for practical ones – to gain whatever financial benefits the government offers to encourage it. They do not consider drafting Charedim into the military fair since they feel that the spiritual contribution of Torah learning is far more contributory to Israel’s safety than is the military. Charedim therefore see RZ/DLs support for the Medina and the draft as worshiping ‘false ideologies’.
Those from both communities who have moved to Israel are far
more committed to their value systems than those who haven’t. They moved to
Israel because they can be better Jews as they define it. And they are going to
fight much harder for those beliefs.
I think this is the impetus for the bitterness between the
two worlds. Compromise is not in their
lexicon. They did not give up ‘the good life’ in America and move to Israel in
order to compromise their values. They moved to Israel to strengthen them.
I suppose there are other reasons too. And I suppose that
this is all a bit of an over simplification. But I do think that it is the very
idealism that motivates one to live in the holy land that is at least in part
responsible for the degree of enmity that results.
Just some of my thoughts on this issue.