Monday, August 29, 2016

The Trump-Clinton Saga Continues

Images from the New York Post
The list of grievances against Hillary Clinton continues to grow. In any normal election year, this would destroy her candidacy. But in this bizarre election year, she continues to lead her opponent in the polls reflecting the will of the general electorate as well as the will of the electorate in key battleground states. Battleground states are those where votes swing Democrat or Republican from one election to the next, depending on who the candidate is.

The rest of the states tend to go either blue (Democrat) or red (Republican) in the vast majority of elections. But this year, even they are up for grabs. If I had to make a prediction now, I believe that there will be a goodly number of red states that will turn blue come election day. And I do mean blue. Because the results of that vote will not make too many people happy – even those that vote for the blue candidate, Hillary Clinton. And I include myself in that category.

A while back I predicted that Donald Trump would win the election, Not because I think he deserved it. But because I believed it was fate. When Trump announced his candidacy on an elevator in one of his buildings, I remember thinking (as I’m sure most people did) that this guy will not even come close to winning any primary. He will be tomorrow’s forgotten news after a landslide defeat in the first one. Boy, was I wrong. He not only won the first primary, he won most of the rest of them against a field of Republican candidates far more qualified than he. 

It made no sense to me. But as I began to think about it I realized something. Trump appealed to the fears and concerns of the ‘forgotten American’. Those blue collar voters that privately resented being ignored by their government.  There are two examples of this.

Trumps strong language against illegal immigrants was a welcome attitude to the political correctness of politicians on both sides of the political aisle that created a virtual free for all of illegal immigration. The fact that some of those crossing our borders were harsh criminals was never addressed. Trump addressed it. That he tarred all illegal immigrants with the same evil brush  by calling them rapists and murderers - despite the fact that this characterization applied to only a few of them didn’t seem to matter. His rhetoric was seen as a breath of fresh air by his supporters. Many of whom had the same thoughts. No politicians ever talked like that. So when he promised to deport them all – in contradistinction to even his Republican opponents, he won their hearts.

The same thing was true about his call to bar all Muslims from entering the country. Although that was a possible violation of the first amendment and rejected as racist by virtually all candidates on both sides of the political aisle, it appealed to the fears of the his supporters. One need not look further than the nightly news to know why. Europe had been flooded with Muslim immigrants and had begun to experience Islamic terrorism unlike anything they had experienced in the past.

Trump was the only candidate sounding tough on it. Everybody else was saying that we can’t treat Muslims that way because it is bigoted - not to mention unconstitutional. The compassion Americans might feel for Muslim refugees was outweighed by the fear that one or more of them would be radical Islamist terrorists out to harm us. Trump spoke to that fear. And his supporters applauded. Barring these refugees may have been inhumane. But fear is a strong motivator which Trump exploited.

These two issues plus the fact that Trump promised economic prosperity based on the business acumen that made him so successful, is why he won those primaries. That along the way he personally insulted or ridiculed a variety of targets including the handicapped; women; and ethnic minorities (like Mexicans); blacks; and even Jews seemed trivial to his supporters who just shrugged them off. They otherwise loved what he was saying. They saw him championing their causes. That he sounded racist did not seem to faze them.

That is why I thought he would win the election. I now no longer think he will. In fact, I think that many of those that voted for him in the primary now regret it. It began when a ‘Gold Star American Muslim Family’ attacked his attitude about Muslims. They had lost their son, a soldier who died a hero protecting his comrades in arms while serving his country. He had some very harsh things to say about them - despite the universal outrage at insulting a Gold Star Family. Instead of apologizing, he doubled down on his criticism.

He also continued his outrageous comments about his opponent (She founded ISIS; crooked Hillary; mentally deficient Hillary; bigoted Hillary; incompetent Hillary; low stamina Hillary…). As a result the polls are now reflecting a different outcome than I had first predicted. Which is a good thing. Because Hillary Clinton is by far the lesser of two evils.

But being the lesser of two evils does not by any stretch make her an attractive choice. There is not much positive about her. She has been lying throughout her campaign about the illegal use of a hack-able private server as Secretary of State; about the kind of e-mails she sent out saying none were classified (some clearly were); Erasing 30,000 e-mails with the claim they were private and non government related (who  knows); And finding an additional 15,000 e-mails she apparently tried to hide from investigators;  

Then there is the questionable practice of granting special access to the major donors of her charity. Although she claims there were no special favors granted to them- as does spokesmen for the State Department - that has yet to be determined.

This is hardly a resume for the Presidency. I remain convinced that had any other Republican candidate run against her, she would lose in a landslide. But now, it seems the reverse will be true.

But, nothing is certain. Especially in this bizarre election year. What if Trump does win? Should we all move to Canada? Of make Aliyah to Israel?  I don’t think so. (At least not for this reason.)

I have said it before and I will say it again. Trump is not a bigot; a racist; a misogynist; an antisemite; or any of the other things he is being accused of. There is no record of anything like that in his past. The worst thing you can say about him is that he had questionable business ethics. (Think - Trump University.) Which is pretty bad. But that doesn’t him racist or any of those other things. What he is guilty of is attracting racist constituencies with his rhetoric. They believe he is all those things. He’s not.

It’s not enough, however, to say that he is not really racist. I do not believe he has the temperament to lead this country.  Will he have the restraint necessary to lead this country without bringing disaster upon it… and perhaps the world? Does his penchant for getting even quickly put us in danger of nuclear war if the leader of a adversarial foreign government insults him?

I don’t think so. At least I hope not. Such an impetuous nature would have sunk any business venture he ever tried. And we know that it didn’t. Once in office, he may continue to bark. But he will be careful about biting. He does listen to advice despite his reputation that he doesn’t. At least according to his trusted executive employees. In any case, I don’t want to find out.

The irony of voting against Trump is that his policies with respect to terrorism and Israel sound a lot better than the policies of Clinton. Her policies seem to be a continuation of Obama’s. Although short on details, I like the sound of his determination to destroy ISIS. I like his friendlier and more supportive attitude towards Netanyahu and his policies. If I were to vote only on those things, Trump would be a no-brainer for me. But there is no way that I will. I will vote for the very flawed but clearly superior Hillary Clinton instead.

Sunday, August 28, 2016

Where Are You, Agudah?

Picture from VIN for illustrative purposes only
Another step in the right direction was taken recently by a group of 300 rabbis. All from a diverse cross section of Orthodoxy. They signed a proclamation. From JTA: (A slightly longer version of this story in can be found at VIN): 
“We condemn attempts to ignore allegations of child sexual abuse. These efforts are harmful, contrary to Jewish law, and immoral,” it said. “The reporting of reasonable suspicions of all forms of child abuse and neglect directly and promptly to the civil authorities is a requirement of Jewish law.”
The letter strongly condemns ostracizing victims of sexual abuse and calls upon synagogues and schools to set up policies to prevent sex abuse, including carefully screening new employees, raising awareness of the issue, and teaching children about sexual development and safety.
The proclamation draws upon the biblical precept not to “stand by while your fellow’s blood is being spilled” (Leviticus 19:16).  One of the signatories likened sexual abuse to murder.
The signatories include members of the Orthodox Union, Rabbinical Council of America and Yeshiva University. 
I reported about a similar letter signed by 100 Charedi rabbis last year. 

As I said, this is a step in the right direction. Unfortunately proclamations don’t go far enough. Statements like these need to be followed up with action by the communities they address. Although I am aware of progress in this area, I’m not sure how many schools have heeded the call and implemented the suggestions of these proclamations.

That sad fact of life is that pedophilia is a mental illness that will not soon disappear. To the best of my knowledge pedophiles cannot be cured of their prediction of being attracted sexually to children. And since there is no way to satisfy their lust legally or morally, they do so illegally and immorally. That is how we get the serial sex abusers like Avreimel Mondrowitz.

The only way to combat this is by doing whatever we can to protect our young. They need to be educated about it, and perhaps more-so parents that tend to shrug these things off… until it happens to one of their children.

We need to make sure that sex offenders are reported to the police, are publicly identified and registered as sex abusers - and prosecuted to the fullest extent of the law. And to make certain that those that tried to cover it up - thereby enabling further abuse be made to pay a very high price for their complicity in it.

So we now have virtually the entire Orthodox world on the same page. Both the Charedi world and the MO world have made strong public statements about it. But I have to ask, ‘Where is Agudah? There is not a single member of the Moetzes that signed onto either document. They are famous for saying that before accused sex abuser is reported to the police, they must first consult with a Rabbi who will decide whether to go ahead and report him to the police. 

We know from experience that when the accused is someone that is part of their community, they tend to avoid reporting it. As was the case in Lakewood when the son of one of their biggest Talmidei Chachamim was sexually abused by his Mechench. 

The father followed protocol and reported it to the Rabbonim. Who promptly told him that he should not report it. And that they would see to it that that the abuser/Mechanech would get therapy. Not unexpectedly that Mechanech did not continue his therapy for more than one or two sessions and then stopped. When that Talmid Chacahm found out, he went straight to the police. Which caused him to become an outcast in Lakewood. Where he eventually was hounded out of town.

Although there was some regret expressed  later on by some of his critics, the damage was done. And there was never any apology made to this Mechanech by the rabbinic leaders that handled the issue at first.

Is this still the position of Agudah? Do they still prefer handling sex abuse in-house when someone from their own community is accused? I hope not. But I have yet to see any change in their views as evidenced by the absence by any member of the Moetzes as a signatory to those proclamations. 

Will they respond publicly to this question? Who knows? (I’m glad to see Rabbi Emanuel Feldman, the brother of Agudah Moetzes member, Rabbi Aharon Feldman’s sign on to this. Are the two brothers in disagreement?)

At this point I would like to note the very positive article in the Forward about Rabbi Yakov Horowitz, one of my truly great heroes. Himself a Charedi Mechanech, he is running a one man crusade from that community against sex abusers. He has done more than most of the rest of us that just talk the talk. He walks the walk and has paid a price for that… having been recently sued by a convicted sex abuser now living in Israel for defamation of character.

Rabbi Horowitz has published widely used materials on how to deal with sex abuse – and how to help prevent it. Those materials have been translated into Hebrew and Yiddish so that Israelis and Chasidm that have difficulty with the English language can benefit from those materials.

What is also quite sad is that there are some advocates that have strongly criticized him (and in some cases vilified him!) for not supporting legislation they felt was important to their cause. So too has he been criticized by some (mostly Chasidic) members of his own Charedi world for not toeing their line on how to deal with the accused.

If anyone deserves a medal for trying to change the culture of sex abuse in the world of observant Jewry it is Rabbi Horowitz. He deserves our gratitude and recognition for all he has done and continues to do for our young people and for Klal Yisroel.

Friday, August 26, 2016

The Bilitzer Rebbe

Photo from TOI for illustrative purposes only
Everybody has to make a living. Of you are a Charedi Jew that living needs to be substantial if your family is the typically large one so common in the Chareid world. Unfortunately As I have lamented many times, there is much poverty in those circles because of the lifestyle they choose. They are willing to sacrife much for the privelge of full time Torah study. In this they are generally supported by their wives who go out to work to help support that lifestyle. But in far too many cases that income just is not enough. How to remedy this situation has been the subject of many posts here.

But there are some among them that do not need my advice. They are very resourceful.  And might even have the blessing of their rabbinic leaders for unorthodox ways of doing so. At least tactily if not overtly.

Case in point. An article in the Times of Israel reports that several Charedi men were involved in a very successful business enterprise. Had they not been caught, they could have provided a wonderful living for the very large families they no doubt have. HaLevai (if only) all Jews make the kind of money these very enterprising Charedi Jews made. 

Unfortunately for them, they no longer have this option available as a means of income. That’s because as I said they were caught. What exactly were they doing that was so bad? What was so bad about the way they were making money? Here is the rest of the story: 
Israeli customs officials recently arrested two ultra-Orthodox men at Ben Gurion Airport in possession of 7.5 kilograms (16.5 pounds) of cocaine stashed in a suitcase.
Several other men are suspected of involvement in attempt to smuggle the illegal substance, Channel 2 reported Friday.
A suspect’s lawyer told Channel 2 that his client was arrested two weeks ago and said he was given the suitcase in Amsterdam to bring to Israel without knowledge of its contents.
Police were investigating the possibility of a larger drug smuggling ring attempting to bring hundreds of pounds of cocaine into the country.
The bust was the latest in a series of arrests of alleged drug smugglers attempting to sneak illegal substances into the country. In July officers seized five kilograms (11 pounds) of ecstasy found in liquid form in a man’s suitcase.
The drug, said to be worth NIS 2 million ($524,000), was concealed inside wine bottles and absorbed within the walls of a suitcase.
Three ultra-Orthodox Israeli men were also nabbed in July for allegedly operating an international drug trafficking operation after authorities found thousands of ecstasy pills on their person at the airport.
According to a Walla news report, their traditional ultra-Orthodox apparel didn’t raise suspicions among airport and customs authorities.
One suspect, a 25-year-old man from Netanya, was nabbed upon landing at Ben Gurion Airport in possession of six kilograms — 13,000 pills — of ecstasy in his suitcase and another kilo of “raw drug material of great worth,” according to the ultra-Orthodox news site B’hadrei Haredim. The other two suspects, a 22-year-old man from Beitar Illit and a 26-year-old from Jerusalem, were rounded up shortly afterward.
Nebech. I really feel bad for these guys. They were just trying to feed their families. They had no idea they were doing anything wrong. Why would they? What’s wrong with drugs? Besides, they weren’t selling it to anyone important. Just people in the outside world. Who cares about them? They all hate us anyway.

I will never forget the reaction my father had to exactly this kind of situation. There was a young Chasidic father in Bnei Brak back in the 80s that was caught doing the same thing. My father was incredulous. He could not believe that someone so Frum… someone that wears a Shtreimel on Shabbos and Bekeshe all week long would do such a thing. 

When he mentioned this to the Bilitzer Rebbe, who had a Shteibel nearby my father’s home (where my father Davened during the weekdays)  the Rebbe responded to him with something along the following lines: "Nu. Reb Shimon, Nebech." "You have to understand." "He has a large family to feed."

My father came home after that conversation and  ‘had a cow’. He was more upset at the apologetic of the Bilitzer Rebbe, than he was at the Charedi drug dealer. 

That - in my view - is in part why such problems keep happening. Not that all Charedim are drug dealers. Chas V'Sholom. Of course they aren't. The vast majority are fine upstanding honest Jews who might feel the same way my father did about these things. But when you have a rabbinic leader saying the kinds of things the Bilitzer Rebbe did - it leaves the impression that it is not so bad for a Frum Jew to sell drugs if  he does it to support his family. That contributes to the possibility of things like this happening again.

It is now 2016, about 30 years after this happened. And virtually the same thing happened again. (And it was not the only time since then that it happened.) I doubt that the elderly Chasidic Rebbe that had this reaction is alive anymore. But I have to wonder if that attitude still exists among some rabbinic leaders of the Bilitzer Rebbe’s inclination. If not in public, than in private. 

I suspect that it might. We may not hear them say it anymore. They may pay lip service condemnation to it. But it would not surprise me that if they then went to herculean efforts to get these drug dealers out of trouble… and spare their families the grief of living without a husband and father.

What about the terrible consequences of the drugs they distributed? Well, you can’t have everything. 

Thursday, August 25, 2016

YCT: Open? Or Modern?

YCT head, Rabbi Asher Loaptin

I reject it. I reject the hijacking of the Modern Orthodox label by Yeshiva Chovevei Torah (YCT). That’s because I define it in far different terms than they do.

YCT head, Rabbi Asher Lopatin has of late eschewed the Open Orthodox label. I don’t blame him. It has been the source of much controversy in Orthodox circles. In some cases it has been called heretical. Based on interviews I have heard I am convinced that it is not. But that has not stopped the controversy surrounding them.

Changing your name does not change who you are. They are still controversial. YCT can perhaps say they are part of a larger group of Modern Orthodoxy. But they cannot say they are the sum and substance of it. I submit that they are not really Modern Orhtodox at all but Open Orthodox as they have claimed in the past. (A term coined by YCT founder, Rabbi Avi Weiss).

I consider myself to be a Modern Orthodox Jew. We do not see Modern Orthodoxy as a movement. We see it as a natural outgrowth of Judaism’s encounter with the modern world. And we see that encounter in a positive way.

We see the world and ask, how can we benefit from what it has to offer? And then we attempt to find out by studying both its academics and its culture… and applying the lessons learned to our way of life. Which will enhance our Avodas HaShem (i.e. serving God).

This is not an original idea. It was first conceived by Rabbi Shamshon Raphael Hirsch when he formulated his philosophy of Torah Im Derech Eretz (TIDE). He truly believed that the modern non Jewish world has many positive things to contribute. And when he found it, he promoted it as an ideal for the Jewish people. Which is why he famously extolled the virtues of German poet, philosopher, physician, historian, and playwright, Friedrich Schiller. His view was that any source that can enhance our service to God was a legitimate source to study and incorporate into our lives.

American Modern Orthodoxy has a different origin sourced not so much in Hashkafa as it is in circumstance.  The Jewish world that dominated early America was very limited religiously. There was little Jewish culture at all and no formal schools of Jewish education at any level. 

As immigration increased over the years, religious life began to be rekindled by the newer immigrants who arrived here more religiously inclined. But the melting pot society that was America until recent times was a powerful force. In a country where freedom prevailed unlike any other, the children of these new immigrants Jews were quick to abandon religion in favor of becoming American and living the American dream.

It didn’t help that it was typical of that time for people to work on Shabbos. In many cases a religious Jew could not find or keep a job if he did not work on that day. So as much as these new immigrants wanted to be observant, many of them succumbed to the pressures of supporting their families  with the security of not losing their jobs. So they reluctantly worked on Shabbos. 

They nevertheless wanted their children to remain observant. But in most cases the children saw that as hypocritical and soon abandoned it all– rejecting any form of observance while chasing the American dream all the way. Meanwhile Jewish education in America was in its infancy.

And yet, there were Jews that struggled to retain their observance. Willing to put up with multiple firings or working at menial jobs at very low pay.  This was the environment of the observant Amercian Jew. Little to no Jewish education, living in a modern culture with liberal values and customs tugging at their children’s hearts. It was a struggle to be observant in live in a society which by definition was to assimilate everyone into its culture and values.

Even observant Jews became acculturated and adopted the American way of life. Their level of observance was limited by their own limited education and the pull of the assimilationist society. This, I believe is how American Modern Orthodoxy evolved. It was not an intellectual process but a cultural one that combined modernity with observance. 

The lack of a solid Jewish education and the pull of the culture meant that their observance that by today’s standards was minimal. Many things crept into Orthodoxy that would be frowned upon by most observant Jews today. Like Orthodox Shuls hosting mixed dancing affairs.

Obviously this is a bit of an oversimplification. But I think it more or less describes the evolution of Modern Orthodoxy in America.

A cultural evolution of Modern Orthodoxy cannot be the definition of a Hashkafa. A Hashkafa must have an ideology.  I think we have to go back to its Hirschean roots in order to define it as a Hashkafa.

At this point I would note that adherents of Hirschean TIDE take strong issue with being called Modern Orthodox. But I think it is fair to call a philosophy that puts a positive spin on both observance; and modern education and culture, Modern Orthodox.

I do understand their objection, however. They define it the way it evolved in America as a cultural phenomenon not based in an ideology. They do not see TIDE as modern, but as the best way to serve God. I would say that it is really both.

Modern Orthodoxy as I see it is basically Hirschean. We can quibble about the differences between TIDE and TuM (Torah U’Mada). And there are significant differences. But the bottom line is that it is the positive encounter between Torah and Mada is what defines us. What does not define us is the desire to fit into Judaism  a modern ethos that in many cases is anathema to our beliefs and practices. That takes our encounter with modernity into new territory. Territory that compromises rather than compliments our service to God. 

Once you start compromising, you never know where that will lead. Ask the leaders of the Conservative Movement where compromise has led them. Like the leaders of YCT, they wanted to ‘conserve’ Judaism in order to appeal to the masses that wished to live their lives as assimilated as possible. Which ended up being a prescription for disaster.

YCT’s motives are more of an appeal to the intellectual Jew of the day rather than the cultural Jew of the past that was the target of the Conservative movement. In some ways YCT’s motives are worse than those of the Conservative Movements were. Culture can change. We are no longer a melting pot society. We are multi cultural. But once you establish an ideology it is much harder to change it. And if that ideology is rejected by the mainstream, you no longer just have a Hashkafa. You have a movement. 

You cannot really call yourself Orthodox if the group you wish to be a part of rejects you. Insisting on the name Modern Orthodox doesn’t make YCT Modern Orthodox. By its statements and actions YCT has changed the original Hashkafic understanding of its founder, Rav Hirsch.  They are no longer just seeking ways in which modernity can enhance ones observance. They are seeking ways to incorporate modern ideas foreign to Judaism into it with a sledge hammer - using tortured explanations of verses in the Torah to make their case.  That is not Modern Orthodoxy. That’s Open Orthodoxy.  That’s what they are and they ought to stick to that name.

Wednesday, August 24, 2016

The Truth about YCT

Zev Farber, clearly labeled an Apikores by YCT
Zev Farber is an Apikores, a heretic. This unambiguous statement by YCT Talmud Chair, Rabbi Y’soscher Katz, is a welcome clarification of YCT’s acceptable parameters of Jewish theology.  Zev Farber is an Apikores because of his characterization of our biblical patriarchs as fictional – never having existed.)

I for one was very gratified to hear one of YCT’s top faculty members say this. It similar to an earlier statement made by YCT President, Rabbi Asher Lopatin. How to deal with heretics in our midst is where I might differ with YCT. But at least the theology itself is clear.

For me at least, that makes YCT’s theology - Orthodox. If one believes in that theology and is observant, they are Orthodox. However, I still have major issues with some of the things YCT does, has said, or supported. (For reasons that are beyond the scope of this post.)

I believe that Rabbi Katz is a Yorei Shomayim - a God fearing Jew. This is what I got from an interview with him by Rabbi Dovid Lichtenstein on his radio show ‘Headlines’.

And yet, he says things which are problematic. That he does so L’Shma (which I believe to be the case) does not mean that his approach is OK. The fact is much of what he says and advocates is not accepted at all by mainstream Orthodoxy. 

But it helps to understand what his rationale is for doing things the way he does. There is one word for it. Kiruv. That’s right. The sole purpose of YCT is Kiruv. Reaching out to a segment of Jewry that would otherwise reject observance.

These are bright, educated Jews that have little to no religious background but may be drawn to the beauty of an observant lifestyle. And yet they have been heavily influenced by the culture, morals, and ethics of our time. Which in many cases contradicts some of the things written in the Torah (and its interpretation by rabbis throughout the generations).

These Jews cannot reconcile their values with those of the Torah. For them issues like egalitarianism or gay rights are seen as positive values and the Torah’s condemnation of them is seen as archaic, unethical, unfair, and immoral.  They might also value modern scholarship of the bible that rejects  the belief in a ‘Single Author’ in favor of multiple authors at different times. Rabbi Katz maintains that if we do not validate their feelings in some way, they will be lost. Since 90% of Jewry is not observant, we need to make some changes in the way we reach out to them. It’s hard to argue with that.

Where I part company with him is in how we do that. Using shock value to get their attention may work. Like when he said in a Facebook post that a conversation about the events at Sinai by the ‘4 sons’ in the Hagadah never happened. That he clarified it by saying that the conversation never happened; that the 4 sons are mythical; but that the events actually did - can still lead to a misunderstanding that implies the events themselves never happened. 

Another example which is dwelt upon in that interview is in how he says we should approach gay rights. First he qualifies his approach by considering it appropriate to speak with two faces. One to the outside world. And one to ourselves .

When speaking to those of us that are believers and practitioners of Halacha, we are clear about the forbidden nature of homosexual relations. It is in the Torah and there is no question about that. But when speaking in public to non Jews or secular Jews, we put a positive spin on it by approving of things like gay marriage. What  we should be saying, he says, is that opposition to gay rights is a denial of human rights.

This, he continues, is not contradictory to the Torah because it is not advocating or approving forbidden homosexual acts. All it does is approve formalizing in secular ways the companionship between members of the same sex.

In other words we are just looking at the reality of our world today and expressing a way to treat gay people humanely. Rabbi Katz adds that of course we would never speak that way to religious Jews. Nor would he perform a gay marriage himself. He was once asked to do that by a gay couple. He told them he would not do it because it there is no such thing as a gay marriage in Halacha.

The problem with an attitude like this is that it is extremely misleading. A prominent rabbi telling the secular world that Judaism supports gay marriage implies that we accept all facets of it – including the forbidden act itself. That he might explain it as supporting only formally legalizing companionship and not endorsing the actual homosexual act is not what people hear. 

We cannot reach out to Jews by leaving the false impression that modern ethics and morals trump what the Torah clearly says. It is dishonest. One must tell the truth about what the Torah says. We can’t be two faced. We can’t fudge it. Observance based on a lie is not observance at all.  It would be like keeping Kosher for health reasons.  If you don’t eat a cheeseburger because you don’t think it’s healthy, you have not observed Kashrus.

Telling one group of people what they want to hear while telling another group of people what they want to hear is doublespeak and not an ethical way to reach out to people.

Still, I lament the fact that the left wing of Orthodoxy has gone to lengths that have caused it to be rejected as legitimate by virtually all of mainstream Orthodoxy in America. We do need to do what Rabbi Katz says and reach out to this type of Jew. But you can’t do that by rejecting traditional values that have been accepted for centuries, just because they don’t fit the times. Nor should it be done by fudging the truth about Halacha.

How sad it is that YCT Musmachim cannot be accepted. YCT does an excellent job in actually training their students how to minister to their congregations. I understand that their practical rabbinics courses are superb! Something that all Semicha programs would do well to emulate.
But YCT has crossed too many lines.  

I only wish Rabbi Lopatin would have done what I thought he would when he accepted his position as YCT president. To pull back on the reins of its leftward move; and even pull it back a bit the right. But he has done the opposite – which makes its acceptability by mainstream Orthodoxy less likely than ever.

Tuesday, August 23, 2016

Prioritizing the Trivial

Guest Contribution by Rabbi Baruch Turkieltaub*

One among similar portraits once available at Walmart
A few days ago, I discussed a deplorable facet of Satmar Chinuch with respect to the State of Israel.

In short I condemned the indoctrination of their very young children to hate the State of Israel and its leaders. I also condemned how in their summer camps - they taught them to act on that animus by setting up a mock scenario of the Israeli Prime Minister being driven in a car though a crowd - and giving campers eggs with which to pelt his vehicle while shouting, ‘Bibi Netanyahu, shame on you!’

That generated the following communication from a prominent Charedi personality who shared some misgivings about the broader Charedi community. For obvious reasons he prefers to remain anonymous. I have featured his thoughts here before. I truly value his opinion even when we disagree.  In this instance as in many instances before, I thought them worthy of sharing with my readers.  So I asked for - and received - permission to post it as a guest contribution. His thoughts follow:

I agree with you about the horrific legacy that contemporary Satmar displays as if it is the will of Reb Yoelish.  We might fault him for leaving that impression, if it is for us to have such opinions. Personally, I shudder at the nastiness with the ensuing chilul Hashem that are dominant features in present day Satmar. 

However, I am one that does not see this as (only) a Satmar problem, though they certainly have their unique portrayal of a much larger issue.  The real problem flaunts itself in every frum community, and each specific community has its own flavor.

Frum Yidden have flipped around the missions and goals, affording far more significance to trivia, and trivializing the real ones. 

Our Ani Maamins order things properly,  We make no mention of neviim until after we have made it thoroughly clear about Hashem’s dominance, His Torah, etc.  HKB”H (God) has never had a problem with Yidden having a leader.  After all, He created them.  He designated Moshe Rabbeinu, set up Aharon to be Kohen Gadol, nesiim, 70 zekeinim, etc.  Each leader has a specific task list and responsibility.  None of them was to approach the importance of HKB”H Himself. 

As a community, we have watched this wither away.  We glorify, almost worship photos of all of these leaders.  Every event has become the subject of numerous photographers, from nichum aveilim, to simchos, Chanukah licht, hatoras nedarim, Kinos on Tish’a B’Av, etc.  

This has come at the steep price of shrinking the respect given to HKB”H.  I recently commented to a good friend  that a quick walk though the buildings of their mosdos reveals a substantial number of large, framed photos of their rebbe (estimate anywhere between 25-40).  In all of those buildings, just how many Shivisis are found? (The signs that say שויתי ה' לנגדי תמיד.  They can glorify their rebbe.  But do their yeshivas push the agenda of Emunoh in Hashem?)  

We have regressed to a childish “hero worship” that has extended far beyond the concepts of Kavod HaTorah, Emunas Tzaddikim, or any of the great maamorim about the role of the tzaddik that are found in the many sifrei chassidus (in particular the Noam Elimelech).  The secular teenager who adorns the walls of his room with posters of various celebrities, whether actors, sports figures, etc., is quite similar to the obsession with photos of Gedolim.

Reb Yoelish had his shittah about Zionism.  I have followed others with different shittos, and I can respect his.  But the nonsense we view today is not truly his shittah at all.  It is an obsession, one that makes the vilifying Zionism the most important mitzvah, which is a grave distortion of the true shittah. 

Neturei Karta that began with a mission to safeguard the kedusha has turned into a hate group, which has flipped over Torah values on its head. 

Some years ago, I heard a story that a Satmar chossid informed the rebbe (Reb Yoelish) that he had a nephew who was in IDF and was killed in battle.  Reb Yoelish began to cry.  This chossid then told the rebbe that he thought he would make him happy with the news.  The Rebbe was enraged.  A Yid was killed and I should be happy!?  The Chassidim seem to have failed miserably in getting the message.

I have been personally embarrassed at what the Litvishe velt has done to their Gedolim.  Almost none of them ever say shiurim anymore.  Very, very little of their wisdom or learning is shared with us.  All they are busy with is “photo-ops”.  Appearances at simchos, where they are given (often well deserved) kibudim, visits to everywhere where they are followed by teams of cameramen, and other events where their appearances involve less from them than candidates seeking election.  The chitzoniyus is all there.  And we are addicted to viewing all the photos in virtually every single publication, from print, to digital.  I question whether all this is contributing anything positive to our existence.  I fear that we have violated the Torah prohibition of לא תעשה לך פסל וכל תמונה.

The “pomp and glamour” of many events, particularly weddings of celebrity families is inciting.  I am apt to recall the wedding of Prince Charles, and the extravagance that ended in divorce and pain for all.  There is an air of competition that has no place in Klal Yisroel.  Does anyone really believe that this fulfills Ratzon Hashem?

Satmar misplaces their energy into this anti-Zionism nonsense.  Others divert their energies into other things of dubious value. 

This is one of the challenging nisyonos of today’s generation.  Everything must look good for the pictures.  Have you noticed the many photos of people of stature dancing at weddings?  When was the last one that exhibited a smile?  I always see them scowling, as if they are busy in dveikus with HKB”H by doing the mitzvah of being mesameyach a chosson. 

How ‘terrible’ it might be if they were happy for the simcha and indicated this with a facial expression of joy!  It would be awful for the pictures.  Is this where we have fallen?  Just what chinuch do we give our children?  Is it about Torah, or have we shrunk to the “hero worship” like the sports stars?

* Not his real name

Monday, August 22, 2016

The Destruction of the Charedi World?

Will we be seeing more images like this? (VIN)
There is good news and there is bad news. First the good news: Charedim are joining the Israeli army (IDF) in greater numbers than ever. Now the bad news (See: good news).

What I of course mean is that this statistic is either good or bad depending on your perspective. If you think that joining the army is a ticket to destruction of your soul (which is the view of most mainstream Charedi leaders) than you will obviously see this as bad news. If you think that joining the army is an obligation to be shared by of all able bodied men no matter what their Hashkafa, then it is a good thing.

To the uninformed observer, it might be perplexing as to why anyone would see serving one’s country in the armed services as anything but patriotic. And certainly not as a path to the destruction of one’s soul. 

Well, there are some things to worry about in that department. Especially if you are Charedi. This was expressed recently by Rabbi Tuvia Schulzinger, one of the leaders in the fight against drafting Charedim. In a short Arutz Sheva article he said the following: 
(I)t's clear to everyone that those haredim who join the army do not remain haredi. "Whoever says otherwise is simply lying. In our city of Kiryat Atta, out of 10 graduates of the local school, 3 joined the IDF, 2 in the 'Nachal haredi' and 1 in the Givati brigade. Two out of the three became completely secular and one is semi-religious. 3,200 draftees in 2016 means 60 buses worth of lost souls." 
"This piece of data is sickening, the Kollels [post-marriage Torah study institutions] in the smaller cities are emptying. I think that all haredi public figures and Rabbis need to reassess things because it can't go on like this. 
Rabbi Schulzinger then lamented that none of the Charedi newspapers were talking about this ‘calamity’, claiming that if this trend continues there will be nothing left of the Charedi community.

I disagree with his assessment. Even assuming the numbers he cites  are accurate (which is far from clear) I do not think the Charedi community will disappear. I believe the opposite will happen. They will thrive. They will however have to readjust their paradigm of full time Torah study for all men for as long as possible without any distractions.

They will have to return to the glorious model of the past, where the best minds that are suited for Torah study will do so. And the rest will go where their innate talents lead them, while being Koveiah Itim - studying Torah in regularly established time periods. They will spend time studying Torah full time for a year or two prior to army service, do their army service, after which they will find jobs. For which they will get training. Hopefully there will be an additional adjustment in their educational paradigm. One that will lead to establishing a few Yeshivos that offer a secular studies program based on the American Charedi model. This will be the ideal. Charedim can continue living as they choose, serve their country, support their families and contribute to the economy.

But what about the Nisayon - where your faith and commitment to observance is tested - that Rabbi Schulzinger refers to? A Nisayon that one encounters when joining the army?

I think it exists to an extent. I know people to whom this has happened. But I don’t know how pervasive it is. I believe it depends on how committed one is to Yiddishkeit. A good education will protect most people from the pull of a secular lifestyle one finds in the army.

The best example of that is the Hesder student. Through their education as Religious Zionists they become highly motivated soldiers. They opt for a lengthy program that alternates periods of Torah study with army service. I tend to doubt that there is a significant number of them that go OTD – if there are any at all. They are committed to God and country.

And then there is Nachal Charedi, which provides a Charedi environment. Recruits have no secular lifestyle pull at all.

In his example of Charedim going OTD, Rabbi Schulzinger’s included someone that joined Nachal Charedi, implying that it does. I strongly doubt that serving in Nachal  Chaedi caused him to go OTD. That he found an example of that does not make it the rule. Anyone can go OTD at any time in his life.  There are tons of reasons someone will do that. Joining Nachal Charedi is surely not one of them.

There are those that might argue that the typical draft age of 18 is when an adolescent is highly vulnerable to Arayos – temptations of the flesh. A Charedi recruit not used to being around women, will come into contact with Chayalot, female soldiers. Making them highly  vulnerable to that type of temptation. I think that is a legitimate concern.

But Nachal Charedi doesn’t have women in their units. So that problem is solved for the most part. Besides, Charedim will be drafted at an older age. Since they will be spending some time learning in Yeshivos post high school they will be older and a bit more mature when they serve. Some of them may even be married by then, reducing the impact that coming into contact with Chayaolt might have.

So at the end of the day, I would tell Rabbi Schulzinger not to worry. Charedim will not disappear at all. Neither will Kollelim. They will still exist and they will flourish. There will be less of them, but they will be better Kollelim. Instead of elite Talmidei Chachamim (Talmudic scholars) being unfairly disparaged as parasites by far too many people, they will be respected as true rabbinic scholars and leaders of the future. By more people in more diverse segments of Judaism than ever.  And with greater communal acceptance and more people working, it will be easier to support them financially. Allowing them to earn a living wage. So the way I see it, it is a win/win for everybody.

Sunday, August 21, 2016

A Satmar Chinuch Lesson

The Two Satmar Rebbes: Brothers Aharon and Zalman Teitelbaum (5TJT)
“Bibi Netanyahu shame on you!” These words were heard on the streets of New York recently. I know a lot of people are – shall we say, not completely enamored of the current prime minster of Israel, Benjamin Netanyahu.

That is an understatement. There is actually a visceral hatred of the man by his political opponents. Even among American Jews that otherwise support Israel - I have heard the vilest of comments about him. He is a hated man. How strange it must be to support a country but hate the leader democratically elected by its own people. One that has served as its leader longer than any other Prime Minister, including David Ben Gurion.

I understand why some people feel that way. They believe that his words and actions have done much to alienate world leaders – no less the one that leads this country, President Barack Obama. He is a individual whose primary interest is in promoting himself. He would sell his mother to the devil to secure his position as Prime Minister. (I completely disagree with them for reasons beyond the scope of this post.) 

I agree that he is an ambitious politician. And that he will do whatever it takes to stay in power. But that doesn’t really make him much different than any other politician. That’s why even Presidential elections in the United States are filled with negative advertising by both candidates against each other.  They will stretch the truth to cast their opponents in the most negative light possible. At no time was this truer than it is now.  But this election is certainly not the first time negative ads have been used. It has been going on for decades. Politicians are all birds of a feather when it comes to using unethical means to win elections.

Netanyahu bashers might find some comfort in Satmar’s feelings about him. The opening words of this post were chanted by very young Satmar children in New York. In two separate incidents. One was from children in a summer camp  affiliated with one Satmar Rebbe (R’ Zalman Teltelbaum) and one affiliated with the other Satmar Rebbe (R’ Aharon Teitelbaum). And they backed up this chant with eggs. (See video below) From YWN
(T)he young children are all given eggs and when the mock vehicle with the “Prime Minister of Israel” drives through the crowd, the children pelt the vehicle – covering it in eggs. Chants of “Bibi Netanyahu shame on you!” can be heard as the children cover the vehicle in eggs. 
I wonder how Netanyahu haters feel about this. Would they join Satmar in this endeavor? Given the chance would they pelt his vehicle with eggs and scream “Bibi Netanyahu shame on you!”? I hope not.  I doubt that they want to be seen as aligned with Satmar? And yet, when it comes to bashing the Prime Minister, they are of like mind it seems.

What makes this particularly egregious is that it was not a spontaneous demonstration of protest against a prime minister they disapprove of because of his policies. It was a Chinuch lesson. The entire event was staged to indoctrinate the very young children of Satmar to viscerally hate the Jewish State and its leaders. It was not so much an anti Netanyahu protest. He was just a surrogate for the State!

This is the legacy that  Satmar founder,  R’ Yoel Teitlebaum, has left his people. A people that may very well be the fastest growing demographic in all of Jewry. It is a legacy of hatred. A legacy that generates an international Chilul HaShem. One that generates the worst epithets at other Jews that do not toe the Satmar line on Israel.

I know that Satmar does many good things. They have some wonderful service organizations where their Chasidim donate time and money (from the wealthier of their Chasidim) to help their fellow Jews. Like their famous Bikur Cholim society that visits the sick and tries to help them out in any way they possible can. Regardless of their level of observance.

And yet I still cannot understand how anyone can support people that indoctrinate their youth to hate fellow Jews they disagree with about Israel.  Teaching them at such an early age - not only shout hatred – but to act on it. That they are otherwise nice people does not erase this very egregious Chilul HaShem. Doing a good deed does not erase doing a bad deed. When that bad deed is a Chilul HaShem, there is nothing that can erase it. (They of course think it is a Kiddush HaShem.)

It is not often that find myself agreeing with editorial comments of a Charedi website like YWN. (Although I probably do so more often than people might think.) But in this instance I agree with their closing comments completely: 
If anyone wonders where the deep hatred comes from to yell Nazi at other Jews, to have the Chutzpah to call 100-year-old Mahigei Hador “reshoyim” and “lowlives”, it begins at age 5 and ends in violent Hafganos in Meah Shearim, where public property is destroyed, the lives of tens of thousands are inconvenienced and people are violently attacked.

Friday, August 19, 2016

Extreme Orthodoxy

Street scene in  New Square
New Square. That is a city of extremes. Extremes that according to most religious authorities are not required to the life of an observant Jew in service to God. As Agudah spokesmean Rabbi Avi Shafran put it: 
The Skverers of New Square — with 7,700 people occupying less than half a square mile — are extreme, even among highly observant Jews… 
I don’t think anyone would dispute that the way Skverer Chasidim lives their religious lives is extreme. I do not say this pejoratively. I say it only as a factual matter. As information about a segment of Orthodox Jewry that believes what it does – that the rules it follows are the best of ways to serve God. Rules that their supreme leader, Rabbi David Twersky increasingly spells out for them. 

Those who wish to follow those rules should be allowed to do so, without interference from anyone. As long as they do not harm anyone internally or externally in any way. If this lifestyle makes them happy, no one has a right to stop them.

Is theirs the right way for a Jew to live? Obvioulsy, as a Centrist, I believe Centrist Orthodoxy is the best expression of doing God’s will. At the same time I think there are other good ways of doing that. Ways that do not reflect my Hashkafa - but are not extreme. 

For example most mainstream Charedim do not live extreme lives. They may have stringencies and customs that they observe which a Centrist like me may not. But those stringencies are generally not anything one would characterize as extreme. Like using only Chalav Yisroel products, not having a TV in the house, not attending movies, avoiding the internet, or men wearing black velvet Kipot under their black hats. These are of course stringencies and customs accepted by New Square too. But they have a lot more rules which are extreme.

What are some of those extremes that separate mainstream Orthodox Jews from the Jews of New Square? An article in Lohud lists a number of rules that must be agreed to in writing. Which if violated - subject their children to expulsion from their schools. They include the following: 
(M)others are banned from driving, and they must shave their heads and wear only clothing that extends at least 5 or 6 inches below the knee… fathers (are) require(d)to pray regularly with a quorum and refrain from cutting their beards. Mothers are prohibited from using smartphones — even for business purposes. (Men are permitted for business purposes but only with a special permit.) Mothers and fathers must cease using WhatsApp, a popular smartphone messaging application... Radios, televisions, Internet connections and newspapers are also banned… men and women (are required to) walk on opposite sides of the street to preserve modesty… 

(As has been stated here many times, their educational system does not include any significant level of secular studies. How that impacts them and others is beyond the scope of this post. The point I’m trying to make is as I said. If this is how they choose to live they have that right.)

Why do they choose to live that way? Here is how Yenti Holczler, a 50 year old grandmother, put it: 
"We are human beings. We also have families and we live the way life was given to us…" "Our way of doing things is trying to do it spiritually, the way the Torah brings it for us." 
I get that people believe that this way of life brings them closest to God. This is what they are taught by their parents and teachers - practically from birth. Isolated as they are from contact with the outside world (a world that includes other legitimate forms of Orthodoxy) they know no other way of doing things. 

But still, I have to wonder, do Skeverer Chasidm do all of this  if with a full heart, or do they do it because this is how they were raised and know no other way? It’s really hard to know. But there are some clues that may tell the story: 
Just as some Skverers defy the ban on WhatsApp, plenty skirt the rules forbidding smartphone use. Enough people in New Square buy two mobile devices — a kosher one for calls within the community, another to keep up with the outside world — that authorities believed it necessary to post a sign on the synagogue wall this fall warning parents that they will be investigated. 
Once they are exposed to the outside world via the internet, I have to wonder whether they start challenging living their lives in such a controlled environment. They may love their lifestyles, but do they love them enough to not question it? ‘How ya gonna keep them down on the farm, after they’ve seen Paris?’

Well, here’s one way: 
There are a dizzying number of committees — or vaads — in New Square charged with enforcing school, modesty and technology rules. The rabbinical court, or beis din, is the community's ultimate judicial authority. The rebbe sits above them all and is surrounded by a few trusted advisers, including his eldest sons. 
And yet, I’m not sure that in this age of instant communication so easily accessible and so easy to hide, that enforcement committees like the above mentioned ones will be enough. On the other hand, because they are so isolated and different than even other Orthodox Jews, they may feel they have no other option. It’s either that or opting out of an observant lifestyle completely. An almost impossible alternative since it usually means a lot of guilt and severing your relationship with your family. Sometimes even from your own children as was the case with Shulem Deen.

This makes me wonder just how many in that community feign loving it and how many actually do. My guess is that there are many that fall in between both extremes. But those that are unhappy will never admit it publicly for fear of the sanctions they would get if they are exposed.

These are some of my thoughts. As I said, I completely disagree with their lifestyle, but will defend their rights to live it as they choose as long as their way of life does not harm them or others. My only question is, how many would walk away from it given the chance to do so without the terrible consequences that would surely result?

Thursday, August 18, 2016

Belittling Survivors of Sex Abuse

Rabbi ZechariaWallerstein
It takes a certain level of naiveté and hubris to think you are serving God by angrily belittling people. Especially if they are survivors of sexual abuse. It is well known that these survivors have emotional issues that in many cases will affect them for the rest of their lives. It is also a well established fact that many are prone to severe clinical depression that often leads them to drug and alcohol abuse - and even attempts at suicide. Sadly in all too many cases, they succeed.

None of this is news. It has all been discussed here before. Why bring it up again?

A few days ago a speech by Rabbi Zecharia Wallerstein, founder and director of Ohr Naava, was uploaded to YouTube. Part of that speech was an angry rant - telling survivors of abuse to ‘get over it’ and stop behaving like victims all of their lives. I have to believe that it was less than encouraging for a survivor suffering from depression to hear. Their state of mind is often very fragile. It often doesn’t take much for some people in this emotional state of mind to be pushed over the edge, precipitating an attempt at suicide.

Obviously Rabbi Wallerstein cannot be held responsible for the sex abuse and the depression that followed. But to say that his insensitive words made so angrily in public did not or could not negatively impact someone like that is to not understand the severity of their pain and risk contributing to their demise!.

I am sure that this was not his intention. I believe he thought he was trying to help. He was telling survivors to get past their pain and make something of their lives. His anger was directed at the fact the survivors are their own worst enemies by dwelling it on their pain instead of ‘picking up the pieces’ and ‘moving on’. Easy for him to say.  I doubt that he or any of his close family members were ever victims of sexual abuse.

His speech was in response to a video on YouTube by Heshy Deutch. He is an expatriate Chasid. 

Heshy spoke from the heart. He spoke about doing more than just admitting how bad things are. He spoke about doing something. Changing things enough so that sex abuse will be entirely eradicated… never to show its ugly face in our world again.

We have a long way to go.

Rabbi Wallerstien’s response to Heshy’s video was shocking. He completely ignored the message and said what many other naïve people like him have said in the past. Yelling at times that they should just stop Kvetching and get on with their lives.

He compared abuse survivors to Holocaust survivors. Separating them from the observant from the non observant. Those that stayed observant even after suffering unimaginable pain he termed survivors. In short they stopped pointing fingers and moved on with their lives. Those that did not remain observant he termed victims that – instead of moving on - chose to dwell on their pain and constantly talk about their Nazi oppressors. He then said that sex abuse victims should follow the example of the observant Holocaust survivors. Telling them to stop ‘pointing fingers’ and move on with their lives. (I think that summarizes what he said.)

How dare he make such a comparison?!  

First, although he pays lip service to the fact they we have no right to judge any Holocaust victim - whether they remained religious or not, he went about doing the exact opposite. As though there were no successful non observant Holocaust victims that have moved on with their lives and have done well.

Of course there are.  Despite the pain they must still feel deep down, there are plenty of very successful Holocaust survivors who did not emerge from those horros as observant Jews. They have rebuilt their lives; had families; and have done quite well. Survivors that have not done well are comprised of both observant and non observant Jews.

Secondly, Rabbi Wallerstein does not seem to understand the difference between survivors of abuse and survivors of the Holocaust. I am not talking about magnitude. As a child of the Holocaust, I am well aware of the magnitude of what happened then. Trying to compare just about any tragedy to the Holocaust is a fool’s errand. There is no comparison to what those survivors went through. I am talking about making an analogy between Holocaust survivors and survivors of abuse. This is where Rabbi Wallerstein went seriously wrong in my view.

Rabbi Wallerstein was rebutted eloquently in a Facebook response by Sima Yarmush. She is an observant survivor of sex abuse and a grandchild of observant Holocaust survivors. Rather than trying to paraphrase her words I urge people to read her relatively short post in its entirety. Here is an excerpt:
The analogy of the holocaust is a chutzpa for obvious reasons. Among other reasons, the Jews were being persecuted by anti-Semites intent on annihilating them for no other reason than being Jewish – simple hatred. The atrocities of the holocaust are acknowledged by all.
I, and other survivors of abuse, on the other hand, are victimized by people who are meant to love us and then, our perpetrators are protected, again, by people who we are taught to trust.
We, as a community, have a problem. Until we acknowledge that we are victims of abuse, we can’t be survivors. You are stopping us from being survivors. 
a. As a granddaughter of a survivor of Auschwitz, I’ve witnessed my Bubby cry and grapple with the trauma of being a victim. It is a daily struggle for her; however, throughout, she remains a survivor, upholding the Torah, without diminishing idea that she was, and remains, a victim of the Nazi’s atrocities.
b. Being a survivor does not mean that you can’t discuss the perpetrators, point your finger at them, and hold them accountable. Look at Elie Weisel. 
c. We can, and will continue, to point fingers at those who have committed the crimes and atrocities, while saying “never again.”

Rabbi Wallerstein has issued the following short video response to the criticism he has received for this speech.

Please see RabbiYakov Horowitz's take on this here.