Rabbi Chaim Malinowitz |
As of yet, the Elimelech Meisels saga is unresolved. Far from it.
There are lawsuits taking place on behalf of parents who signed up their daughters before news of this scandal broke. They are demanding refunds of their deposits.
The 2 Battei Din (Rabbinic Courts) that have adjudicated this case are at virtual war with each other. One can see just how contentious the war is by reading letters and responses in 2 blogs: Daas Torah and Tzedek Tzedek. The former seems to side with the Israeli Beis Din (IBD) and the latter seems to side with the Chicago Beis Din (CBD).
There are lawsuits taking place on behalf of parents who signed up their daughters before news of this scandal broke. They are demanding refunds of their deposits.
The 2 Battei Din (Rabbinic Courts) that have adjudicated this case are at virtual war with each other. One can see just how contentious the war is by reading letters and responses in 2 blogs: Daas Torah and Tzedek Tzedek. The former seems to side with the Israeli Beis Din (IBD) and the latter seems to side with the Chicago Beis Din (CBD).
Add to that the apparent outrage that Ner Israel Rosh HaYeshiva, Rabbi Aharon Feldman had at how the Israeli Beis Din has handled it - and that Beis Din’s reply –
and one can easily see that this is not a simple matter. That Rabbi Feldman
tends to lean toward Israeli rabbinic authority in many matters, tells you
quite a story.
I should add that a series of posts have subsequently written by Rabbi Daniel Eidensohn attacking both the CBD and Rabbi Feldman. They can be found on the Daas Torah Blog. The anger and the accusations are not pretty.
Based on my reading of the situation so far, I tend
to side with the Chicago Beis Din for several reasons.
I am not going to go into the details. But briefly the point of contention seems to
be whether the removal of Meisels from his 4 seminaries and the subsequent sale
of them to a friend of his qualifies as enough for the IBD to once again recommend that
school for female seminary students.
They said that these new conditions restore the once fine
reputation of these schools. Parents can feel assured that their daughters will be
safe and experience Chinuch by some of the finest teachers in Israel.
The CBD has said that the school is still not safe since the
teachers there knew what Meisels was doing. They knew because the girls he sexually molested
or abused confided in them. And they basically ignored it. They therefore do
not recommend the schools. The schools are not yet safe environments for
young women – as long as any of those enabling teachers remain in the school.
I don’t see how the IBD can recommend this school. Even if
Meisels is gone and these teachers have learned their lesson - the mere fact
that they sacrificed the welfare of their students for fear of losing their
jobs makes their values questionable. Who would want their daughters to be
educated by such people? It should also not be lost on anyone that the CBD spent a great
deal more time examining all the evidence and the people involved. Including
Meisels who admitted to some of those accusations. Which is why I stand with
the CBD.
But there is another reason why I am suspect of the IBD. It
is Rabbi Chaim Malinowitz, the very member of the IBD whose umbrage was strongly expressed in response to the critical letter written by Rabbi Feldman. In that
letter Rabbi Feldman strongly criticized the IBD for their decision to Kasher
the school - without examining all the evidence. And basing their decision
solely in the interests of the seminaries.
Rabbi Feldman clearly expresses in his letter a truth that
the right wing has not fully come to grips with. Young women (or men) who
have have been sexually abused have a very high percentage of losing their
faith in Judaism… or even if God. I’m happy to see that Rabbi Feldman realizes
that now and in a sense has become a victims’ advocate. There is nothing like
first-hand knowledge of the facts to change an Erliche person’s mind in that
way. All the talk about protecting the reputations of innocent people accused
of these crimes and therefore taking extra precautions about reporting abuse to
the police seems to have gone out the window. And saving the institution at the expense of a victim
that was sexually abused stops being the paradigm. This seems to be what
happened with Rabbi Feldman.
I don’t think the IBD has had any personal experience with
victims. Certainly not in this case. And Rabbi Malinowitz is first in line to
protect the reputations of accused sex abusers. He practically put into Cherem
David Morris who founded the organization Magen which protects his community’s
youth from sexual predators. Rabbi
Malinowitz branded him a Rasha (an evil person) and told him so to his face. He
also forbade the charity he founded, L’Maan Achai, from leaving their charity
boxes in his Shul.
This is not someone I would want on any kind of Beis Din
making decisions about sexual abuse in seminaries. And yet he is the one speaking
on its behalf accusing the CBD of lying!
If this episode weren’t so tragic, Rabbi Malinowitz’s
accusation would make me laugh out loud. The rabbis on the CBD are some of the
most trusted rabbis in the world. And they cross the spectrum of Orthodoxy
- right to left.
Rabbi Shmuel Fuerst
is the Dayan of Agudath Israel of Illinois is an internationally renowned Posek
and a Talmud Muvhak of Rav Moshe Feinstein. To think he would lie about
anything, not to mention something as serious as this is beyond ridiculous.
Rabbi Gedalia Dov Schwatz is the Rosh Beis Din of the CRC
and the Av Beis Din of the RCA. He is a Dayan and Posek for a wide spectrum of
rabbis under his tutelage and is respected even by members of the right. I
recall Telshe Rosh HaYeshiva and Agudah Moetzes member who spoke at their first Chag Semicha (Yadin Yadin – which the grants the title of Dayan) referring to Rav Schwartz as far
more knowledgeable than him.
Rabbi Zev Cohen has been a Chicago fixture for decades and
was one of the pioneering Avreichim at the Chicago Community Kollel. His reputation grew quickly and widely as did his popularity.
He was a widely sought after speaker and Magid Shiur (Torah lecturer). His talents were sought after by
many an institution. He became a Rebbe at HTC and developed a lifelong following
there of students who still consult him on matters of Halacha and Hashkafa.
He
was hired by Congregation Adas Jeshurun, (a Shul whose membership leans heavily Centrist sociologically) well over 20 years ago and has been
their Rabbi ever since. He founded the aforementioned Choshen Mishpat Kolllel
from which he received his own Yadin Yadin. He also joined forces with RCA President
Rabbi Lenny Matanky to build the controversial West Rogers Park Eruv. Rabbi
Cohen is a man of conviction with a prove track record. He does not shoot from
the hip. He makes decisions with great deliberation. And he certainly does not lie. Not
even his biggest detractors would say that he did.
It’s really sad. I once considered Rabbi Malinowitz to be a hero. Aside form his magnificent job in being the general editor for much of the ArtScroll Shas, he took the lone position of support for Rabbi Natan Slifkin when his books
were deemed heretical and banned by Rav Elyashiv. And his fellow Charedi Rabbonim practically
ostracized him for doing that. But he stood his ground. Since then however, he
has made some very questionable decisions and has been just as stubborn about
the bad ones as he was about the good ones.
The ending to this saga has not yet been written. It is my
sincere hope that the IBD realizes the error of its ways and reconsiders its
decision. Until then, they are in my view a stumbling block to the potential
students whose parent s rely on them. And the results of that could be tragic.