Wednesday, January 21, 2026

Tragedies and Hate


Hatzalah rescuing infants at a daycare center (United Hatzalah)
Lately, it seems as though the frequency of tragic deaths of Charedi youth in Israel has increased substantially. A few weeks ago, a young teenager was hit and killed by a speeding bus. On Monday, it was reported that two infants died in an unlicensed, overcrowded daycare center. And this morning, yet another Charedi teenager was hit and killed by a speeding bus.

That these deaths are heartbreaking does not need to be said. As has so often been the case when I hear about tragedies like this, I cannot imagine what the families of these young victims are going through.

But I am not going to talk about fault here. There is plenty of responsibility to go around in these tragic incidents - a discussion is beyond the scope of this post. My concern is how the Charedi leadership and their politicians react to such events - placing the blame entirely on their usual whipping boy, the leftist/Zionist court.

Here is how Rabbi Natan Slifkin put it:

Yesterday, following the tragic deaths of two infants at an unlicensed daycare center, Charedi MKs and pundits, along with Likud MKs and other supporters of Bibi’s government, blamed the “Leftist/Zionist” court for recently halting daycare subsidies to Charedim in kollel, claiming that this “forced” Charedim to resort to cheaper, unlicensed, dangerous daycare.

As Natan noted, this daycare facility had been in existence for 30 years and had been widely used during that time because it was cheaper - and, I assume, because parents believed that a daycare center run by religious Jews did not need a license in order to be safe.

What troubles me greatly is the hatred inherent in blaming the court, as though the court’s entire existence were devoted to destroying ‘Torah-true Judaism’, as though leftist/Zionists hate the Torah and hate God. It never seems to occur to these Charedi leaders that many of the challenges they face could be addressed in the same way that non-Charedi Jews address them. Many of those being just as devout.

To these Charedi leaders, everything the government does that they disagree with is seen as an attack on God and His Torah, and therefore are to be hated and blamed for all that has gone wrong in their world.

This is what I do not understand. The idea of hating any Jew simply because they are secular Zionists with a left-wing ideology is morally reprehensible... Even if that ideology appears to be anti-Torah, don't blame the messenger. It is far more likely those beliefs are the result of ignorance of the Torah, having been replaced by modern progressive values. While many of those values are indeed anti-Torah, that is not why they hold them. They hold those values because they do not know any better having been raised with little or no authentic Jewish education.

Such Jews should be viewed as a tinok shenishba - a Jew who was captured as an infant by non-Jews and raised with non-Jewish values presented as truth. Instead of hating them, they should be reaching out to them.

I know this is hard to do when you believe you are in the midst of an existential struggle. But that is precisely the time when one must reach out. There is no telling what even a small act of loving-kindness can accomplish when confronting someone whose values are so anathema to your own.

Hatred and name-calling can only make matters worse. Instead of holding demonstrations against the Zionist Left, there should be dialogue. Let them see the positive side of the Charedi world. The side that exemplifies Chesed - loving-kindness toward fellow Jews. The Charedi world has many great Chesed organizations that help fellow Charedim in times of need. They should expand that help to include secular Jews as well. Not judging them. Not arguing with them. But winning them over as exemplars of non-judgmental loving-kindness. By being role models, rather than screaming, name-calling protesters who blame all their troubles on others and in the process cause a great deal of damage. Both to property and their own image.

The refusal to take any responsibility for these tragedies tells me something about the character of their leadership...

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