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| Professor Jack Wertheimer (JTS) |
Putting fuel on
that fire is the fact that most parents don’t’ even care that much anymore if
their children do marry out. In one rather infamous case a secular Jewish
author actually promoted the idea! The simple reality is that most non Orthodox Jews could not care less about their Judaism – even if they don’t intermarry.
But even if no one ever saw the Pew
statistics, one would have to be blind, deaf, and dumb to not notice what’s
happening to Conservative synagogues. Formerly large synagogues have so few members
that they cannot be sustained financially without merging with another similarly
affected synagogue. That’s why so many current Conservative Shuls have such long names.
While it might be true that Reform Judaism is growing, as a movement they have departed so much from what defines Judaism or even who is or is not a Jew, there is nothing to talk about. Although among individual Reform Jews that actually ARE Jews there may be some hope.
Lest anyone think that as an Orthodox Jew, I am viewing
things through a biased ‘self-serving’ lens - I am not the only one that
has noticed this tragedy. So too has Professor Jack Wertheheimer, one of the Conservative
Movement’s brightest stars. He has written numerous articles on the subject lamenting its demise and suggesting
that the reason it is happening is that the rabbis of those Shuls ignored the lack of
Mitzvah observance on the part of their congregants, focusing instead on social
justice issues.
Without any exclusively religious Jewish substance (unrelated
to social justice), it should not have been too hard to have predict what would
happen. But apparently no one did. Which led to a slow but gradual process of
disinterest by its members in a Judaism that had no real independent Jewish meaning. While
those rabbis may have couched social justice issues in religious terms it does not take
rocket science to see it as a universal non religious value.
Well, it appears that not all is lost. To my great surprise,
Eytan Kobre actually wrote about this subject in last week’s Mishpacha Magazine. Analyzing the state of heterodoxy is not a subject usually dealt with in a Charedi Magazine.
Eytan excerpts sections of a Mosaic Magazine piece written
by Professor Wertheimer that repeats some of the things he has said in the past
about the overall sorry state of his movement but makes one exception. Which
is what Eytan notes offers a bit of hope: The ‘Three day a year Jew’.
These
are Jews that actually care enough to attend a Shul the 2 days of Rosh Hashana and the one day of Yom Kippur. While that may not be all that significant to the
survival of Jewish heterodoxy, it does show one thing. It shows there is a very small part of them
that still values Judaism beyond just pursuing social justice. Not all heterodox
Jews have abandoned their heritage. At least not entirely. (Although their children might. Which is all the more reason to engage with them. More about that later.) The ‘Pintele Yid’ - the tiny little part of their soul that yearns for full Jewish expression still exists within them.
Now it’s true that part of the reason for that attendance at is due to innovative techniques
those rabbis have used to entice them in, (some of which are clearly against Halacha
– such as adding live music as part of the service) - that alone is not what brings
them in. They are going to Shul because it’s the high holy days.
Professor Werthheimer suggests that these Shuls need to
bring them in during the rest of the year if they want to survive. That is
true. But I still don’t see heterodox movements surviving very long
into the future.
Nor do I think that Orthodox outreach can bring them all in ‘from the cold’ to our much warmer and more
authentic form of Judaism. Although surely that should mean redoubling
our efforts there. But what it does mean is that there is still a substantial percentage of them (10% or more?) that care enough to be reached. And as their denominations continue to
die, they will need to go somewhere for some authentically pure Judaism. And that ‘somewhere’
is us. We ought to be ready to take them in and embrace them.
In this season of repentance and forgiveness we should
therefore treat every secular Jew we know as the brothers and sisters they are. We
need to respect them as they are and not try to overtly change their ways. We need
to be tolerant and open to all Jews regardless of which denomination they
belong to. Not be judgmental. We must convince them about the beauty of
Judaism by example. No preaching. No criticism.
Just a pure expression of love for our fellow Jews. What better way to begin the year than to
have a commitment like that!
