Thursday, November 27, 2025

Showing Gratitude When and Where It is Due

Rabbi Meir Soloveichik discussing the Jewish/Christian relationship (Tikvah)
I think of no better day to celebrate the Judeo-Christian ethic upon which this great nation was founded than today - Thanksgiving 2025. The Pilgrims who fled religious persecution in their home country, found the freedom to practice their Christian faith on these shores. A faith that leaned heavily on the values of the Old Testament, which is our Torah.

Regardless of the theological differences in interpretation, many of their customs are taken straight from the biblical narrative, which is nearly identical to our own. Thanksgiving is an example of this tradition. It is based on the Yom Tov of Sukkos in its identity as Chag Ha’Asif. We are commanded to celebrate the gathering of the crops at the end of the agricultural season and give thanks to HaShem for His bounty.

Even though, as gentiles, the Puritans were not required to do so, they felt an obligation to thank God for their bounty at this time of year—when they too had finished harvesting their crops. There is no better example of the ‘Judeo’ part of the Judeo-Christian ethic than this. That they cared about the values taught in the Old Testament strongly supports those who say that the American values of the Founding Fathers were rooted in the same biblical orientation as their Puritan forebearers.

The promise of America does not disappoint. Even now, at a time of heightened antisemitism. All one has to do is look at the city of Lakewood, New Jersey, to see what America’s creed of religious freedom has wrought. That unfettered freedom has allowed a small village to grow into a metropolis of Torah study and observant Judaism, unlike any other city in America. Without the slightest bit of government interference.

Whether one agrees with their hashkafos or not, one cannot escape the fact that this city exists and has grown exponentially since the yeshiva world was first established there by Rav Aharon Kotler. And of course, Lakewood is not the only example of how we, the Jewish people, have benefitted from the blessings this nation’s founders and leaders have bestowed upon us. The freedom to worship God in any way we choose has resulted in a virtual explosion of yeshivos, Jewish high schools, and elementary schools. Something our European ancestors, living under varying degrees of antisemitic oppression, could never have dreamed of. This freedom is enshrined in the Constitution. Although some on the fringes may wish to take it away, it is too deeply embedded in the American ethos to succeed. Most Americans would not tolerate it.

To those who say that Thanksgiving is not a Jewish holiday - or worse, that it has some non-Jewish religious aspect and therefore should not be celebrated - I would urge them to consider that they may be entirely off base. Worse yet, rejecting a national holiday designed to give thanks for our good fortune as Jews living in this time and in this place is an insult to our gracious American hosts, who have been so good to us.

I’m not saying that everyone must eat a big festive turkey dinner today—although there is certainly nothing wrong with that. What I am saying is that instinctively rejecting a secular holiday simply because it is not explicitly Jewish - and doing so publicly - may actually be a chillul Hashem. Instead, we should express public gratitude, especially on a national holiday where gratitude is in its name

Hakoras HaTov – gratitude - for what this great nation has given us cannot and must not be overlooked. We must show our appreciation to this country, to its founders, and to its leaders for carrying that torch. And more importantly, we must be grateful to God for His kindness in allowing us to live at a time and in a country like this.

Happy Thanksgiving.

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