Friday, December 19, 2025

If You can Beat 'em - join 'em?!

It is almost as though leaders of the Conservative movement read my Substack article yesterday and decided to respond to it. Of course, that isn’t what happened.

What feels like a response is really a development that has actually been in the works for over two years—an effort to address the catastrophic attrition out of their Jewish identity and high  intermarriage rates among non-Orthodox Jews. As reported by JTA:

The Conservative movement, one of the major Jewish denominations, is formally apologizing for decades of discouraging intermarriage and committing itself to a new approach centered on engagement…

In its report, the movement also accepted responsibility for the consequences of that approach.

“We acknowledge that our movement’s historical stance has resulted in hurt, alienation, and disconnection from our community. We deeply apologize,” the report said.

The report does not formally lift the ban on Conservative rabbis officiating at interfaith weddings.

Instead, it asks the Committee on Jewish Law and Standards (CJLS) to revisit how its rulings are interpreted, while recommending new educational, pastoral, and ritual approaches aimed at intermarried families.

“All discouraging intermarriage did was push people away who really should have been part of our communities,” said Rabbi Jacob Blumenthal, CEO of both the Rabbinical Assembly and United Synagogue of Conservative Judaism.

In other words: If you can’t beat ’em, join ’em.

The proposed solution to the tragedy of American Jewry abandoning their heritage through intermarriage is not merely to welcome interfaith couples into the community, but to stop even discouraging interfaith marriage in the first place. This approach is justified by pointing to Pew data showing that ‘fewer than half of Jews raised Conservative still identify with the movement’.

Intermarriage is prohibited by Torah law. That much is clear. Yet once again, the Conservative movement is changing the rules to fit the times. While maintaining plausible deniability by insisting that it isn’t really changing them.

But you cannot have it both ways...

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