Monday, August 10, 2026

Defining Judaism by Our Own Lights

Once again, I find myself agreeing with a Conservative religious official. This time it is Steve Freedman, head of school at Solomon Schechter Day School of Bergen County, New Jersey. (To the best of my knowledge, he is not a rabbi.)

It’s not that I agree with everything he says. But I do agree with his overall thesis, which complements the views of another Conservative religious official, Rabbi Steven Abraham, whose views I recently discussed in a similarly positive vein.

Freedman’s point is the following:

The most urgent job of Jewish education right now is not fighting antisemitism directly. It is making sure our children are not first introduced to their own history, their own people and their own homeland by those who mean them harm. It is making sure they can explain themselves to themselves before someone else does it for them.

That is the strongest case I know for Jewish day schools right now, stronger than the continuity argument, stronger than the safety argument, though both are real. Continuity is a downstream effect. Safety is a separate and urgent project. This is the existential one. Who gets to a child’s sense of self first?

The continuity data is solid on its own terms. A 2025 study of Jewish college students found that 81 percent of day school alumni said being Jewish was very important to them, compared to 35 percent of students who didn’t attend day school. But that number describes an outcome, not the mechanism. The mechanism is actually simple and direct. A child who has already engaged with the real Jewish story, in depth, from people who love them, is much harder to indoctrinate into someone else’s version of it.

How true.

Although, in my view, the most important job of a Jewish education is to teach Jews how to be Jewish by virtue of its defining characteristics: knowledge and observance of, Jewish law. The importance of Freedman’s point, however, cannot be overstated.

The lack of a Jewish education explains a lot about organizations like Jews for Justice in Palestine and other such anti-Israel organizations. Without any knowledge of their own history, their own people, and their own homeland, it becomes much easier to buy the arguments made by our enemies under the guise of anti-Zionism or anti-colonialsm.

It becomes easier to reject the idea that the Zionist pioneers who saw Israel as the Jewish homeland were justified in seeking a mass return to it; that Israel was part of our heritage as Jews; and that we had every right to encourage mass immigration to the land and develop it—all while attempting to live there as a people in peace and harmony with the indigenous Arabs who lived there at the time.

Without that essential knowledge, it becomes much easier to buy into the notion that the Jews had no connection to the land and were simply another group of Europeans interested in colonizing a foreign land and subjugating its people.

That kind of indoctrination by a left-leaning, anti-Jewish ideology becomes a lot easier when there is no Jewish education of any kind. And that helps explain the astounding statistic that 65 percent of Jews do not consider being Jewish important to them.

If Judaism doesn’t matter to you, then all you see in Israel are victims (Palestinians) and victimizers (Israelis) - who supposedly perpetuate colonialist policies through a system of brutal apartheid.

This is how you get a Bernie Sanders, whose Jewish education was probably nonexistent, becoming a man who values socialism more than Judaism by orders of magnitude…

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