Photo Credit - Yeshivat Maharat via the Forward |
I explained that the title rabbi stems from the word ‘Rebbe’
which literally means teacher. As such there was nothing wrong with calling a
woman educated to teach Judaism with that title. That was over 40 years ago. Some
would say that I was ahead of my time.
But I was wrong and regret writing it. I was wrong because in my impetuous youth I did not understand what I understand today, that something
which is not a black and white Issur does not necessarily make it a good idea to pursue.
Nor did I understand that breaking with tradition can open a Pandora’s box that
will be counter-productive to our future.
The truth is that there are Halachic issues with female
rabbis. I’ve discussed them before in essays where I argued against the
ordination of women. It is not that I am a misogynist. I personally have no
problem with female rabbis. But I would not have any problem counting women
into Minyan either. Except that Halacha does not allow me to do that. There are
Halachic issues with respect to female rabbis too. Like Serara. While I have no
personal problem with it, I have a Halachic problem with it. Women are
forbidden by Halacha to take positions of leadership in certain Jewish areas.
Like Shuls.
I had also argued in the past that even though women can
serve in other areas the way rabbis do (e.g. teachers) the primary and historic
function of a rabbi has always been in a Shul as a pulpit rabbi. Leaving aside the
issue of Serara it is highly impractical and awkward for a woman to be the
rabbi of a Shul.
The primary function of a Shul is prayer - doing so with a Minyan. A
woman may not be counted into a Minyan and may not be present in the actual sanctuary
of a Shul with the men unless she is separated by a Mechitza (partition). While
a rabbi can have a position outside of the actual area of prayer – like in a
classroom or as a principal or a pastoral marriage counselor, that has always
been a secondary role. Even though there are ways where a woman can
technically lead from ‘behind the Mechitza’ and address the members with a D’var
Torah from a podium after the service… I think it is safe to say that this is a
highly impractical way for a spiritual leader of a Shul to function.
There are also perception issues. When an Orthodox Shul
lists a woman as a rabbi a public unfamiliar with the nuances
of Halacha on this issue can make the mistaken assumption that the Shul has
broken with Halacha.
So while there may be ways to skirt the Halacha and technically
not violate it - it isn’t pretty… and in my view undermines the spirit if not
the letter of the law. What is gained on some sort of equal rights way is lost
by the radical departure from normative Orthodoxy.
Which is the reason I agree with the Rabbinical Council of
Amercia (RCA) position on the recent graduation of three women clergy from
Yeshivat Maharat. They have rejected it.
In an article in the Forward RCA
President Rabbi Shmuel Goldin explained it as a violation of our Mesorah –
tradition:
“We feel extremely strongly that there is certainly room for women leadership within the Orthodox community, both educationally and professionally,” RCA President Rabbi Shmuel Goldin told the Forward. “We do not believe, however, that it is appropriate for women to be ordained as rabbis.”
Goldin added that he did not think the school was defying the Orthodox community but rather was “moving in ways that are removing it from the normative Orthodox community. It’s not a question of defiance, it’s a question of direction.”
I completely agree. Calling a woman a Maharat instead of
rabbi is an irrelevant distinction. A spiritual leader, a Maharat, and a rabbi
are all the same thing. That Yeshivat Maharat founder Rabbi Avi Weiss gave in to
pressure- promising not to call his graduates rabba (his feminization of the
word rabbi) is really a meaningless gesture. With apologies to William
Shakespeare’s Romeo and Juliet - a rose by any other name is still a rose.
I have said this in the past and still strongly believe it.
People who achieve proficiency in any area of study deserve to be recognized
for it. Gender does not matter. Women
who for example become experts in the field of theoretical physics via study,
examination, and fulfilling all requirements of a PhD are entitled to called
Doctor – with all its rights and privileges. This is true of any field of study.
Including Jewish study. But the title rabbi is more than about being recognized
for that achievement. A woman cannot possibly be entitled to all the rights and
privileges that a rabbi gets. Not to mention the Serara issue and the perception
issues.
I have always maintained that achievement should be formally
recognized. But the title rabbi (or its equivalent) is more than about
recognition of achievement. I’m sure that the three graduates of Yeshivat
Maharat know more than some of my fellow Musmachim (ordained rabbis). But this
isn’t about knowledge. It is about breaking with tradition.
Tradition is not the only concern. There are also collateral
issues that should not be over-looked. It is a rather well known phenomenon
that women have become a dominant factor in Conservative Shuls. If I am not mistaken Conservative Judaism’s flagship educational institution, JTS has more women currently studying
for the rabbinate than they do men. And Shuls are increasingly being attended
by more women than men.
This is not a good result. It’s one thing to want to attract
more women to Shul. Even though a Shul is primarily designed for men to pray
with a Minyan, there are definitely spiritual benefits for women praying there
too. But when equality becomes the goal it seems that there is a natural
disinclination for men to be there. That undermines the very equality that is
so sought after by feminists.
I don’t know if the proliferation of the Maharat will do the
same to left wing Orthodoxy, the natural home of the Maharat. But it should
certainly be a concern.
That said, I definitely think there is a place for Jewish women
that are highly educated in Judaism. They can – and already do - serve the
Jewish community as teachers, principals, counselors and even as Halachic
consultants (Yoatzot). The more they know Jewishly, the better. And as I said
they deserve recognition for it. But not as rabbi.
Even though I have much admiration for him, I disagree with
Rabbi Asher Lopatin who was quoted in the Forward article. He said that a
Maharat is no different than a Rebbetzin other than the fact that a Maharat has
more formal and professional training. Yes they have more of that. And they can
function in the way a Rebbetzin has always functioned. But to grant them the title
of rabbi or any other version of that appellation makes it an entirely
different enterprise than that of Rebbetzin. And in my view opens a Pandora’s
box that may never be able to be closed again.