Thursday, December 19, 2024

American Jews and Christmas

White Christmas composer, Irving Berlin
A lot of my close friends hate this time of year. Which might be understandable if one is an observant Jew who is proud of his heritage and remembers what Christianity has done to our people over the course of Jewish history. Everything we see and hear right about now - says Christmas.

For people like me who love this great country – for all the kindness it bestows upon our people, it is quite understandable that when a Christian religious theme takes hold of the populace – it takes away a bit from that warm sense of acceptance we otherwise feel all year round.

Honestly, I used to feel a little less American at this time of year. I felt a bit betrayed that a country that does not have an official religion suddenly becomes Christian - even if not officially.

But is that really true? I don’t think it is. Which is why I am not as upset as I used to be. That’s because Christmas in America has been almost completely sanitized of all religious meaning. Although one occasionally sees a nativity scene displayed, it is by far overwhelmed by gaudy displays of decorated trees and homes lit up with all kinds of different displays that have no religious meaning at all. No where is the secularization of Christmas better expressed than in the music one hears all over the place this time of year. If you read the lyrics to the most popular Christmas songs, it has nothing to do with the religious aspect of the holiday.

I have been told (I did not see the Teshuva myself) that R’ Moshe Feinstein actually holds that one is permitted to listen to Christmas music if it contains no religious content (Although he does frown on the practice.)

I would suggest that the reason Christmas is such a popular time of year is not because of its religious context. But because it has become a euphemism for family time. What Americans are really celebrating is the warm and fuzzy feeling of being with family at this time of year. The religious aspect of the day has just about vanished. Why does America celebrate it at all? Because the vast majority of Americans are Christians. They were surely indoctrinated about its religious significance but now see it primarily as a day to be with close family

One of the things that contributed to the secularization is the music. Which was in large part written by Jewish composers. Who although secular - were still Jewish enough not to write songs with religious Christian content. This is in part what Dr. Yvette Alt Miller discusses in a recent article:

Why are so many of the most beloved Christmas songs Jewish creations?

Dutch Jewish composer Stephen Emmer (who’s written his own Christmas song, Sleep for England) posits that: “It is in the DNA of Jews to write melancholy music, and also to ingratiate themselves in a world in which they are outsiders, at a time of the year when people are feeling especially patriotic and rooted in the idea of home.”

For many of the Jewish composers mentioned below, it seems that writing Christmas music was a way of fitting into a non-Jewish American idea. They didn’t write about Jesus or religious aspects of the holiday. Instead, their songs invoke an idealized American life that was denied to them and their families.

So yes, Jewish composers contributed mightily to the secularization of Christmas. And Americans lapped it up. To this very day these songs are played 24/7  round the clock by some radio stations - starting from about Thanksgiving all the way through December 25th. While some songs are laden with religious content, the vast majority of them are not.

So at this time of year we should not feel the slightest bit upset by all the public celebration over Christmas - a holiday that has lost almost all religious meaning. At least as far as the public is concerned.  So that even as a proud Jew fully aware of the persecution of our people at the hands of  Christianity over the course of Jewish history, I nonetheless remain a proud American, too. Even now during this - the Christmas season.